I know, I know what a grief it is to lose a son. But I can hardly dare compare the cases, can I? I loved Percy so very much, and it hurts dreadfully, but he will not be remembered in the same way as Neville deserves to be.
I am a few months ahead of you on this journey. All I can say is that grief comes in waves. In the beginning you fear the undertow will drown you. Anniversaries are difficult, and birthdays are difficult. Eventually, you will have days when you feel as though you can breathe again a little. It will take time.
Please be kind to yourselves, and don't fear to turn to those who love you when you need it.
Private message to Alice and Frank
I know, I know what a grief it is to lose a son. But I can hardly dare compare the cases, can I? I loved Percy so very much, and it hurts dreadfully, but he will not be remembered in the same way as Neville deserves to be.
I am a few months ahead of you on this journey. All I can say is that grief comes in waves. In the beginning you fear the undertow will drown you. Anniversaries are difficult, and birthdays are difficult. Eventually, you will have days when you feel as though you can breathe again a little. It will take time.
Please be kind to yourselves, and don't fear to turn to those who love you when you need it.