Well, you'll get the heart of it in the letter, you know, but there are things about what Terrie's done that I am certainly not pleased with -- and her behaviour as of late (as you've described it) most certainly has me concerned.
This is not to say that you are completely and utterly blameless, love, but the fact that she's balking at a paternity test gives me a good deal of pause.
I think she's a desperate woman in a difficult situation who has decided that you are going to rescue her, and as such, is depending on you for all the answers and making it as difficult for you to walk away as possible. I don't like the way she lied to you, and I think the feeling you have about her ambivalence towards the Order is a very real sign that she is not ready to come here to Moddy Dhoo full-time.
It's a complicated issue, darling. But regardless, I think you ought to hold off making any big decisions until you know for certain whether it's your baby.
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Date: 2011-07-11 01:58 pm (UTC)This is not to say that you are completely and utterly blameless, love, but the fact that she's balking at a paternity test gives me a good deal of pause.
I think she's a desperate woman in a difficult situation who has decided that you are going to rescue her, and as such, is depending on you for all the answers and making it as difficult for you to walk away as possible. I don't like the way she lied to you, and I think the feeling you have about her ambivalence towards the Order is a very real sign that she is not ready to come here to Moddy Dhoo full-time.
It's a complicated issue, darling. But regardless, I think you ought to hold off making any big decisions until you know for certain whether it's your baby.